going the extra mile
reassesing for quite sometime now and i just realize that maybe i'm too safe that's why whom ever i like doesn't really see me as someone more than friends.
i am not the type who asks permission really... i mean for me asking permission to court is spoiling everything. I don't like the idea of making a contract before hand... it somewhat gives the notion of "eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth"everything has a price.It's like saying, " I will do everything as long as..." it is getting away from the risk of not succeeding.
some if not most girls would actually prefer being asked because they say that it shows respect. One friend of mine though stand that giving permission for a guy to court is some what saying that you accept the guy as your boyfriend... the courtship then after is just merely formality. If you said yes to a guy for courtship and at the end won't allow him to be your boyfriend, would then implicate that the you were just taking advantage of what ever you gained in the process or simply "pinapa-asa lang yung guy". That's according to a girl friend of mine.
Anyway, for me i don't really ask permission... i mean from wherever we started (time we met) and to wherever it may lead, i just go with the flow... when i fall ... i fall... that's it... actions unplanned... it just comes out... but maybe timing is where the problem enters... hehe i just don't know when to say and when not to say... being torpe comes out... and everything just seemed not right... hahayz
going the extra mile is not a problem though because for me loving is more than words (is all you have to do to make it real)... naks! lol. btaw i just show it like any other torpe i guess and this statement--- "action speaks louder than words" ...may be untrue.
i am not the type who asks permission really... i mean for me asking permission to court is spoiling everything. I don't like the idea of making a contract before hand... it somewhat gives the notion of "eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth"everything has a price.It's like saying, " I will do everything as long as..." it is getting away from the risk of not succeeding.
some if not most girls would actually prefer being asked because they say that it shows respect. One friend of mine though stand that giving permission for a guy to court is some what saying that you accept the guy as your boyfriend... the courtship then after is just merely formality. If you said yes to a guy for courtship and at the end won't allow him to be your boyfriend, would then implicate that the you were just taking advantage of what ever you gained in the process or simply "pinapa-asa lang yung guy". That's according to a girl friend of mine.
Anyway, for me i don't really ask permission... i mean from wherever we started (time we met) and to wherever it may lead, i just go with the flow... when i fall ... i fall... that's it... actions unplanned... it just comes out... but maybe timing is where the problem enters... hehe i just don't know when to say and when not to say... being torpe comes out... and everything just seemed not right... hahayz
going the extra mile is not a problem though because for me loving is more than words (is all you have to do to make it real)... naks! lol. btaw i just show it like any other torpe i guess and this statement--- "action speaks louder than words" ...may be untrue.
posted by coined_torpe at 8:06 PM
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Courtship is important for me because you give out your intentions to the girl.. and when you court a girl yuri, you have to be sure that she is the one for you.. you have to make sure your feelings are true and not merely infatuation..and it seems to me that you are afraid of getting hurt.. well, how can you love if you are afraid? remember, loving someone is a wonderful thing but having that love reciprocated is a BLESSING.. you can't really force someone to love you back.. Loving someone will never be a sure thing.. Don't worry yuri, wag kang magmadali.. I know God has a perfect match for you.. He will make everything perfect in His time.. (hardcore toh!!)
ei dayn, uhm yep i do believe in courtship and its importance but what i am not sold out to is the "asking of permission" part... yeah i agree, love is not a maybe thing... hahaha and im not afraid to get hurt because if ever i am or i was then i would have not loved over and over... i think i have all the love to share... hehe i'll remember that! haha lol well i hope so... im not in a hurry naman eh... if i fall i fall and if not then well wait for me to feel it... hehe thanks ha!
go get her..
awww...toooo bad...torpe!!! hahaha....
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