lovin' feeling

feelings are feelings... it changes either rapidly or slowly and it is rather odd if changes doesn't happen, feelings just come and go literally. It can change in a split second or maybe years but not a lifetime.

the feeling of love is not that different after all, it cease in time. today you maybe inlove and tomorrow you'll never know. what is needed in every loving feeling is the nurturing, a fire can never last if not taken care of or a plant dies when not watered and cultivated.

if asked why does relationships lasts? well it's not all feelings what adjuncts is the responsibility of each other to nurture a relationship as i've said feelings just subside with out proper conditioning. most of the time it's better to fall and no know reason why you fell than to have all the reasons in the world because in time if the reason maybe gone then nothing is left for you to stay.

now, if feelings come and go then it can come back any time. i guess. you'll never know when to fall or not because it just appears eh at the right time. we are fond of searching and hoping for the right person for us but i guess no matter how we search we will never find it because sometimes we are to focus on our ideals that we never see that someone whom we thought of as nobody but came at the very right time we needed the "ideal" person for us. but it is never too late because that person we never saw maybe in the future we will be able to see at the right moment.


tip: to those who are in a relationship. don't stop with feelings continue to nurture it and take good care of what you have :)